When I was in the shop yesterday, I noticed on the front page of one of the newspapers was a photo of a celebrity breastfeeding with the headline ‘exclusive shock pics’. The article that followed is one of pro-breastfeeding, saying it is normal and natural. However, does the headline shock pictures not portray it as not being normal? Why is a woman breastfeeding shocking? It is the reason women have breasts, it is the most natural thing in the world.

I breastfeed and I love that I have been lucky enough to be able to but I don’t feel the need to push it in front of people. I say I am lucky, because it isn’t easy at the beginning, it was painful to begin with and I was constantly worrying Lucas wasn’t getting enough, I cried to D that I couldn’t do it, I had a breastfeeding support network woman come round and as soon as she walked in the door I burst out crying but with support, I persisted and it’s now second nature to Lucas and I.

It isn’t that simple for everyone though and it seems to be turning into a battle between bottle and breast, instead of supporting each other at a time when we are on an emotional rollercoaster, we are forcing opinions on each other.

Some women desperately want to breastfeed but can’t, whether that is because the baby won’t latch on, complications during labour forcing mother and baby to be away from each other or one of the many other reasons and it doesn’t seem fair that they have to have breastfeeding rammed down their throats or other mums looking at them when they get the bottle out during a baby group.

The same goes for those that choose not to breastfeed, I went to aquanatal with a lady who wouldn’t even consider breastfeeding, she said she couldn’t think of anything worse than a baby being stuck to her. That may be right for her but it wouldn’t be fair to expect breastfeeding mothers to not breastfeed when out with their baby.

Whether bottle or breastfed, babys should be fed when they are hungry, being in a public place shouldn’t effect this. Nobody should be made to feel awkward for feeding their baby and we should be embracing our different parenting styles rather than being judgemental. The most important thing is that our babies are fed, loved and nurtured x

 

 
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9 Comments

9 Comments on Isn’t breastfeeding normal? Lets not sensationalise

  1. kibbler86
    August 31, 2015 at 7:30 pm (3 years ago)

    I couldn’t agree with you more. I’m really getting tired of hearing people bickering over which way of feeding is ‘best’. As long as the baby is feeding surely it shouldn’t matter how he is getting his meal? I wish more women would support one another instead of having this argument 🙁

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  2. Eve Redmond
    January 29, 2016 at 3:30 pm (2 years ago)

    Love this, I’m so glad you got the correct support! I totally agree with your point about the newspaper! There’s nothing shocking about feeding a child x

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  3. Rachel - Beautyqueenuk
    January 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm (2 years ago)

    Ah all of this drives me mad, why can people not see that it is one of the most natural things in the world. Why is it okay for animals to do and not women? x

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  4. Kizzy
    January 30, 2016 at 6:02 am (2 years ago)

    Newspapers love to scandalise and mislead their readers just to get you to buy their papers.

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  5. Kara
    January 30, 2016 at 8:11 am (2 years ago)

    I would be more angry that the paper chose to publish a private pic as newsworthy – disgusting!

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  6. Sonya Cisco
    January 30, 2016 at 3:53 pm (2 years ago)

    I wish breastfeeding didnt cause ‘shock’ headlines, most natural thing in the world. Equally I really dont like to see ‘shaming’ of those who don’t bottle feed, for whatever reason.

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  7. Jenni - Odd Socks and Lollipops
    January 30, 2016 at 4:34 pm (2 years ago)

    There is such a fuss about nothing isn’t there. I am breastfeeding my daughter, who just turned two and the amount of ‘are you giving up yet?’ I get is just depressing to be honest. Nothing shocking about boobs, nothing shocking about breastfeeding a baby or a toddler out and about and nothing shocking about bottle feeding. The only thing that is shocking is how judgmental lots of people are about people who chose the ‘other’ choice.

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  8. Tori Gabriel
    January 30, 2016 at 4:51 pm (2 years ago)

    Exactly! Who cares HOW you feed them as long as you feed them? I hate the divide that seems to exist over different types of feeding. We’re all Mums, we’re all feeding our babies, why the war?

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  9. Ickle Pickle
    January 31, 2016 at 5:46 pm (2 years ago)

    Gosh I wish the press and public would just leave mothers alone! Breast or bottle -both are fine. When will they get that? Kaz x

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