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How to Make Gardening Feel Less Stressful

March 19, 2024 by Jenni

The words “stressful” and “gardening” shouldn’t go together; after all, gardening is good for your mental health. Regardless, gardening can still be fairly stressful. Just think about it briefly: in the warmer months, there are so many snails and other pests that the weeds won’t stop growing, and some of your favourite plants will die, too. None of this is remotely ideal in the slightest. 

While yes, by all means, gardening can be incredibly relaxing, fulfilling, and so many other positive things, nonetheless, it’s a lot of hard work. It’s not just hard work, but it’s pretty pricey, too. So, the last thing you want to do is throw a bunch of money at something that does not go well. So, what can you do to make it feel like a breeze? How can you make this feel easier and maybe even less labour-intensive? 

Well, it’s possible! So here’s exactly what you need to know!

You Need to Set Realistic Expectations

One of the biggest sources of stress in gardening is the pressure to achieve perfection. Just look on Instagram or even some celebrity gardeners you see on YouTube; it’s not hard to be filled green with envy, right? Well, you need to remember that gardening is a journey, not a destination. 

While it’s natural to want your garden to be a certain way and even have a design you’re hopeful of bringing to life, you’ll still need to understand that not everything will be possible. So, it’s best to set realistic expectations for your garden and accept that there will be both successes and failures along the way. Overall, embrace the imperfections and focus on enjoying the process rather than striving for flawless results.

What’s the Best Way to Make Gardening Easy?

It will vary from person to person because it’s all about opinions. For some people, it’s getting artificial grass from DDS landscaping; for others, it might be hiring a landscaping service or buying one of those robots to cut your grass. 

Maybe you’d rather only have pavement so there is no work to do? In general, it’s up to you and your choice; there’s no right or wrong way to be a gardener, and there’s no gatekeeper. You pick however you want to garden, and you can pick however you want the ease. Again, there’s no right or wrong way! 

Practice Mindfulness When Gardening

It’s not a surprise that gardening can provide an excellent opportunity to practice mindfulness and be fully present in the moment. Again, gardening shouldn’t be seen as a chore; it’s meant to boost mental health in the first place. 

You will need to treat this as a mindfulness-filled activity. Think of it this way: instead of rushing through tasks, take the time to slow down and appreciate the sights, sounds, and sensations of the garden. You’ll have to pay attention to the feel of the soil in your hands, the sound of birdsong, and the beauty of blooming flowers. Just think about the nature that you get to be surrounded by! 

Just Accept the Imperfection

Did you know that perfectionism can be a major stress source in gardening? If you look at palace gardens, even gardens at manors, they are perfect; there’s not a hint of mistake in them. While yes, that can be good news, you should still keep in mind that there are professional gardeners with decades of experience manning these. Plus, literally every single day, these are being tended to—yes, every day! 

You can’t compare your garden and your skills to the pros; you should never do that! Instead of striving for flawlessness, embrace the beauty of imperfection in your garden. Just allow plants to grow in their natural shapes, and don’t be afraid to experiment with different colours, textures, and arrangements. It’s essential to remember that every garden is unique, and there is beauty in diversity and individuality.

Practice Companion Planting

It’s all about the little things you can do to make gardening less stressful and easier in general, and this is one of them. Companion planting involves growing compatible plants together to maximise space, deter pests, and improve overall plant health. There are usually combinations that go well together, especially vegetation, like putting marigolds around veggies. 

The Tools You Use Make a World of a Difference

Hands down, this is something that you need to think about! You can’t just use the cheapest tools and expect them to do well, whether a shovel or a weed eater. If you want to make gardening as seamless and relaxing as possible, then it’s seriously all about the tools. You want items built to last, and you can’t expect that without investing. This doesn’t mean you need cutting sheers that were welded in Japan, but it does mean just buying brands (like Bosch) that are known for their high quality. 

Irrigation System

Now, the summer months are only getting hotter; sadly, there is no possible way to fight that. They’ll get hotter and probably become a little more challenging to deal with each year. Just accepting that alone will make things a little less stressful. Regardless, you’ll still need to go above that a bit. So why not look for a solid irrigation system? 

While yes, the old-fashioned way with water can be very soothing, it’s also time-consuming and back-breaking (literally). Besides, what if you go on holiday and a heat wave happens? It’s just a good idea to look into an irrigation system such as a sprinkler system. It would be very handy, and these are fairly sustainable, too!

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